Find Christian Singles Online

Are you ever asked to fund loans, gifts, or an economic recovery package for your date, as if you’re their personal banker with benefits? Ever feel like you’re bankrolling your dating relationship without receiving an equal expression of effort or appreciation from your date?

These are red flags warning you to put on the brakes–unless you don’t care if you’re loved for your money. How can you ever know for sure if it’s you or your assets that attract your dates?

You can create Love Tests that detect the gold rush girls or guys, the con artists, the social climbers. Then you decide whether to let your date manipulate you for money, or move on to meet a more compatible match.

How do you create this Love Test?

When your date starts asking you for gifts, donations, loans or cash, shut down the bank and see what happens. You can do this gracefully, by saying all of your assets are tied up in trusts or foundations. You can say that money issues are a top cause of relationship stress and breakups. And you’d like to experience what it’s like to live within your date’s financial means, so you understand their challenges, pressures and attitudes about spending. You could say that dating isn’t about money, but common interests, good communication, chemistry and kindness.

What are the risks in shutting the door of your bank to your dates?

A gold rush girl or guy seeking the seductive perks or a share of your money may move on. Or they may keep up their sensual or sly manipulations to see if they can break down your defenses so you open your wallet or purse to keep them in your life.

What if you see and enjoy their clever con for cash?

If you’re tempted by great chemistry or physical beauty to marry a match who seems overly interested in your assets, don’t walk down the aisle without this: An ironclad pre-nup.

If this makes your match run, you’ve saved yourself the distress and expense of a battle in divorce court.

Check with a counselor to find out why you’re open to this type of dating arrangement. With a little coaching you may let that old baggage go, so you’re free to love and be loved, to know and be known for all the priceless wonders you bring and hope to receive in a loving relationship.

In this final episode of Crimewatch this season, learn the tricks used in the world of scams. In “Cyber Love Trap” segment, watch how a female victim was blinded by ‘love’ and lost her savings and more to a virtual boyfriend’.

I rather send my money on the date or the girl and not some site that may no even help. thanks

and why are the Christians apparently intent on loaning me money and finding me a "Christian single" to date with?

I get a lot of spam about this (and the Christian singles) and I can’t see any difference between a Christian loan and a secular loan, so they obviously are charging interest. Are they not supposed to do so? I know Muslims aren’t supposed to charge interest and Muslim loans are therefore interest-free. They have special banks set up and everything. Since this doesn’t seem to be the case with the Christian loans, exactly what makes the loan "Christian"?

(and what is the deal with the Christian singles and why do they want a Nordic Heathen wench? What have you people heard?!?)
I fail to see how asking about my spam is an accusation, but OK. No, I won’t post my spam. If you want to message me your email addy, I’ll be glad to forward it to you though.
Badwolf, actually, we prefer "Heathen" with the capital "H". Technically, I’m Forn Sed, a type of Germanic Heathenism from the Scandinavian area that is more folketro than Asatru. We’ve taken ownership of the word, use it to differentiate between ourselves and other followers of very old, indigenous faiths and don’t consider it derogatory at all. I’m not sure it ever really was a derogatory word unless you were a Christian, in which case someone implying you were not would be quite the insult.

It seems to me women are making their decisions based on ethnicity/height/money. I haven’t had much luck with online dating. I am getting cynical and giving up hope. I am not looking for any particular type of ethnicity – just whoever I find attractive and has a decent job with a college education, like me.
any ideas? Greatly appreciate it.

I’m interested in starting an online business that works. I would consider a dating site, casino site, or other websites that work. I would like to know how I can get stated. I have lots of online experiance. I have looked at many different companies that provide online dating, and casino sites built and read to run. How legit are they, and are their claims for success accurate? They average in price from 9-,000. I don’t have a lot of money especially to throw away in a scam. What are my best options. I’ve done ebay, and a few of the online marketing scams that don’t work. I’m billingual, English and Spanish, have a two year general degree working on my B.a in business management. I’m receptive to working with other people on a new idea that we can market online, have a few ideas myself just don’t know how to get started, can someone lead me in the right direction?