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If he or she knows most, if not all, of your strengths and weakness, and use them against you, you may face yourself always losing in any quarrel. It’s like they have a “You” controller on their hands, and they know which buttons to push to elicit what actions from you. The more “evil” ones purposely embarrass you in public or when you are in company of your friends, giving you no respect. Seriously, being a victim and staying as one will not solve anything. Things does not get better when you keep quiet. If this sound like you, its high time to voice out.

Analyze everything that is said. Are those true or false? Are the facts being exaggerated? Are some things being left unsaid? Know whether you really did make a mistake on your part. Once you find the answers to that, start taking action. If it is positive that they are right, think of a solution to that problem. If it is not your fault,it is time to stop the nonsense.

Understand that no one can insult your confidence and self-respect if you did not allow them to. It is absolutely something you can control. If you are always at the mercy of someone’s else rage, it certainly is no healthy relationship. You have to show you are displeased with him/her. Donald Trump said: “If someone screws with you, screw them back fifteen fold.” Well, you do not have to really screw them back, but just do not keep being on the defensive.

In a relationship where you are always subject to verbal abuse, you are being “owned”. In a healthy dating relationship, there must be love and respect for each other. In a relationship without those crucial elements, the relationship will not grow. You will be better off finding someone else worthy of your love. There are people who love you but are fond of engaging in such verbal abuse. In such a difficult case, tell them gently but firmly that they need to do some self-reflection or else a break-up will be inevitable.

I met this guy online, but because he lives in another state, we haven’t met. We’ve recently started talking on the phone, but it’s been hard to catch each other because of the time difference and because we have jobs and stuff. He usually calls me when it’s late at night for me and by that time, I’m usually asleep. From what I know about him (I do understand the dangers of online dating), I really like him and we get along well. I’ll try to call him the next day before I go to work, but he’s usually not able to answer. I don’t like games, but if he calls me, should I always return his call as soon as I’m able or does that seem too desperate? Or does he just usually need to try calling me again or should I wait a couple of days before I call him???

I am a single black woman of God I have a good job my own place and my own car. I just want to meet a single southern black man of God that wants a good woman, no games, no drama please. I know I may maybe asking for a lot but I know that some men may also have there preferences as well. I’ve done the online sites but want to find a new way of meeting any suggestion?

I’m asking this in R/S because its a Christian Singles Ministry that I am leading.

I have a potluck/game/movie night planned and have lots of possibilities for games etc, with it being held in a gym *old school building*

We will have card tables set up, volleyball, fussball, ping pong..

What are some good activities to get ppl to engage in conversations with others? I have a feeling this will be a larger group then our normal 15-20ppl attendees.. so just trying to get everyone to meet everyone if you know what I mean.

Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!

Also what movie would you recommend that is your favorite and decent?

Thanks!

any thought on some games to play at christian singles group?
it is raining out and i dont want them to be bored

I’m a new Christian went on a 2nd date with a woman that is on her way to becoming born again. The date was to be dinner and a movie. When I picked her up she told me she already ate and was not in the mood for a movie so we went and played a few games of pool instead.
For starters SEX is not even a issue, I have taken a vow of abstance.